I understand the ‘urges’ men go through..
And just how easy it is to immediately ‘fix’
In the palm of our hands
At the touch of our fingertips
That provides Immediate gratification
No matter what
Imagery that can send us wild
That when coupled with a quick ‘hand movement’
Helps us ‘let go’ for a few minutes
And Help us ‘empty’ our problems..
Problem comes though..
When we ‘fill up’ again..
We just, ‘rinse and repeat’ the cycle
Not allowing ourselves the gift of ‘holding back’..
And Self control..
It’s been about 12-13 weeks since I last masturbated..
And I do plan to go the entirety of 2019 without doing so..
And I FULLY understand that masturbation
Is perceived as ‘normal’ and ‘common’ behaviour
However, coming from a guy with a self confessed ‘addictive’ personality
I actively admit cheating in past relationships
I’ve been very open about this
And being ‘shackled’ and often
A ‘slave’ I guess you could say
To the ‘pussy’
You may read those words as harsh, or ‘offensive’
And there’s NOTHING I can do about that my friend
I’m simply sharing the truth from a Mans perspective
See, I used to use masturbation and porn as an addictive behaviour
That lead to further addictive behaviours
That didn’t play out too well
Which When used incorrectly, with an ‘addictive’ mindset?..
It’s not the most useful behavior
You know, Evidence now shows relationship breakups
And marriage adultery rates are the highest ever
I think a BIG part of this is down to pornography and Addictive masturbation..
And viewing that behaviour as ’normal’ and ‘harmless’
And to some?
They have a great relationship, great sex life and actively watch porn together
And hey, If thats the case, this post probably ain’t for you..
But for me personally?..
(And many men I’ve helped)
The behaviour we’ve done since we were 12 years old
Becomes (like overeating/drinking)
Brought about by repeated behaviour
SO any chance we get, we know that, that habit provides ‘relief’
But If we follow that ‘relief’ anytime we’re stressed or bored?..
Why, would we ever choose the harder route Of holding back?..
You know, Restriction is NOT punishment
If It’s for a greater cause
I KNOW When I ‘hold back’
I’m more passionate and ‘up for it’
I’m more constructive in Training
I’m more energetic in life
I have more self control with other choices
Like Showing up to Training because I want to Focus on something positive and constructive
Instead of feeling the need to distract all the time
And one takeaway I’d like you to consider today
If you continually choose what is ‘Easy’..
You life will become Hard..
But If you Choose what is maybe ‘Hard’..
Your life becomes easy
And I know what type of life I’d rather choose
Luke ’Sex before masturbation’ Harrison